4 Tips to Making Empowered Decisions

It was just about this time of year, some 14 years ago, when I faced one of the hardest decisions of my life.

Nothing in my life, up until this point, had gone my way. Each failed relationship, each failed job, and each disappointment 😞 seemed to push me over the edge.

It had only been 8-months since I moved to California. I was working a dead end job cleaning dog kennels, and was madly in love 💕 with someone who I prayed 🙏 would be different from the last.

For the first time in my life I was in a safe place to heal. I desperately wanted change in my life and deep in my soul knew more was possible.

Though my life was much better than it ever had been before, the weight of my insecurities closed in around me 😩.

Finding myself once again facing a dysfunctional relationship, lack of money and drama filled life, it was time to make a very difficult decision.

I knew I needed help. I knew I was the one who, though didn’t ask for this newly found hardship, was the center cause of it.

Year after year my situation would change, but I was still the common denominator.

I had to ask for help.

But this decision was hard. My pride, ego and victim / lack mindset stood in my way.

Asking for help was like admitting there was something wrong with me or implying that it was my fault. Not to mention… asking for help was going to cost me money that I didn’t have.

So, I faced it. One of the hardest decisions in my life.

I didn’t have the money. I didn’t have the support. I didn’t have the resources. I didn’t know if it was going to work. And I didn’t know if I could afford the on going payment 💰 that came with it… but I said yes anyways.

I said yes to me 🙌.

And as you know… that brutally hard decision turned out to be the breaking point in my life.

Are you facing this hard decision 🤷?

Do you know you 100% need to do something different in your life? If the answer is YES! Then let’s talk.

The Over It Academy is currently enrolling new students into our Fall semester and we have a spot with your name on it.

To claim it, you too will be forced to make the same hard decision I did in the past.

This decision will challenge you, but who knows… it might be just what you need.

Look, exploring more is easy and 100% free so you have nothing to lose.


Here’s what you do:

Join me today at 12:30 PST to explore 🔎 more by going HERE.

(Or) Click HERE and let’s talk 📞about your options 1 on 1.

And in the meantime, check out this week’s Mind Right Monday on how to make empowered decisions!

Until next time.

Xoxo Bonnie Kelly

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