If you have been reading my emails these past few months then you have been hearing me talk a lot about the BS beliefs🌡in the mind and for good reason!
Whether consciously or not, we all have beliefs that lurk in our subconscious minds that continuously sabotage our decisions and keep us trapped in a state of “familiar”.
Well that’s all fine and dandy if “familiar” is butterflies and rainbows, but what if familiar is disappointment and dysfunction, then what?!?
🔥Then life gets or continues being miserable, but it doesn’t have to be this way. 🚀
You see, we all have beliefs that imprison us to some extent. Sometimes the BS🌡keeps us trapped living paycheck to paycheck, 💸sometimes it keeps us dating the same time of people 💑, and sometimes it keeps us yo-yoing with our health⚕.
I have this friend who I love to the moon and back! 🌙 I want nothing but the world for this person. They are very self-aware, easy to get along with, beyond helpful and growth-minded, except when it comes to relationships.
This dear friend of mine keeps dating the same type of people who are projects, need to be “fixed” and/or rescued more days than not. It is PAINFUL😖 to watch this person fall in love over and over again and constantly battle for better communication and personal responsibility.
UGH! If only they could identify the BS belief🌡that keeps them stuck in this rescuer mindset, then and only then can they step off the crazy train 🚂 and land at a station where they are attracted to other growth-minded partners.
You might be wondering what BS belief🌡 this friend could be operating on, well, honestly I don’t know. I don’t typically coach my friends and family (it’s an ethical thing), but I do know that it is 100% a pattern that I have seen play out in every aspect of this person’s life. From the friends they make to the people they date, life gives opportunity after opportunity for this person to be a “rescuer”.
What I do know for sure is that this BS🌡comes from their past where as a child they were forced to grow up quickly and be the fixer at a young age. This conditioning guaranteed installed some kind of BS in the mind that “people need saving” and has kept my friend stuck for most of their life. 🚸
My question to you… where are you stuck?
Where are you allowing BS🌡in your mind to run the show without question? And are you even aware of it?!?
In this week’s episode, I am going to challenge you to both identify and eliminate the BS🌡in your mind! The best part, I even provided a PDF for you to work on! Bad-ass, I know!
Check it out, and if you are ready to take these ideas into action, then join us for our 21-Day Emotional Detox Challenge. It started on Saturday, and you still have time to join us!
Signing up is easy, simply click HERE and join! Within minutes you will have access to my program and steps to start eliminating the BS🌡in the mind for good!!
Until Next Time, Happy 4th!
XOXO – BK